Praise or Reproof?

It is a stated fact that all children perform bad (from our adult point of view) deeds from time to time. They fight, cry, tell lies, refuse to eat porridge and so on. Parents in this case face the dilemma – whether to scold their children or just mildly tell them not to behave badly. There is no universal recipe for such situations but you can follow some simple rules if you do not want to hurt your kid’s feelings.

One of the main aims of a growing personality is to meet the expectations of his or her parents. If you call your kid “evil” or “bad” he will start behaving according to this description. The fact is that it is our opinion which forms the character of the child. Of course, there are other important factors as well, but this one is the main. The kid views his parents like some unachievable gods and their idea of him makes him be the same as we think of him.

Continue reading

Dating a married woman.

Life is unpredictable. Once you realize that you fall in love with a married woman. It is wonderful to love someone but in this case it is too complicated. She is married and has children. It is more complicated if she loves you as well. Do you want her to divorce? Do you really want to get married her and to father her children? Maybe you just play games with her? Well, you should answer these questions having an affair with a married woman.

I witnessed a friend of mine who fall in love with a married woman. Well, for the first time it was difficult to realize my dear friend made such a choice. His lover was going to divorce and she had two kids. She was persuading him that didn’t love her husband as they had nothing in common. Well, the situation was complicated indeed. Anyway it seemed to be okay as she was planning to separate from her husband. But they are still together. She is still cheating on her husband and she is still playing games with my friend. It is painful for him. But he can do nothing. It is terrible as he has serious intentions and she is changing nothing. She spends holidays and vacations along with her husband. And it seems like she is absolutely okay with it. But my friend suffers. I tried to explain him that she uses him and that he should leave her. But he is crazy about her and is ready to do everything for her.

Continue reading

The Four Most Popular Symbols Worn as Mascottes

The whole our life is full of different symbols. We face them everywhere. Every symbol, especially religious or magical one can is believed to have a certain impact on our mental state. A human being needs to have some psychological help from time to time and if he or she doesn’t receive it, it’s sensible to search the support using a material object. From the prehistoric times people believed that some things they used in their everyday life had the power, which couldn’t be explained. The sequence of coincidences kept these beliefs up. That could be a feather or a pebble. Later these tokens became the attributes of the power. Today modern people still wear these objects or carry them everywhere they go. One can have a symbol of the religion to which he or she belongs, a mystic object, or even a photo of the person he or she loves. Let us see the four most popular objects which are worn as mascots in our time.

Continue reading