Praise or Reproof?

It is a stated fact that all children perform bad (from our adult point of view) deeds from time to time. They fight, cry, tell lies, refuse to eat porridge and so on. Parents in this case face the dilemma – whether to scold their children or just mildly tell them not to behave badly. There is no universal recipe for such situations but you can follow some simple rules if you do not want to hurt your kid’s feelings.

One of the main aims of a growing personality is to meet the expectations of his or her parents. If you call your kid “evil” or “bad” he will start behaving according to this description. The fact is that it is our opinion which forms the character of the child. Of course, there are other important factors as well, but this one is the main. The kid views his parents like some unachievable gods and their idea of him makes him be the same as we think of him.

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How to Decorate Your Kitchen

Except the fact that the kitchen should be functional it also should be cozy. Decorating a kitchen has a great importance for our health. We spend much time there preparing the food and consuming it. If we eat breakfast in a pleasant atmosphere it will be far more useful for our body. But how to decorate the kitchen and retain its functionality. Remember that it’s had to clean small and littery kitchen. If the space is small don’t fill it with numerous accessories and brick-a-bracks. Add a few bright accents. Hang a couple of pictures with flowers and colorful fruit. Plain wooden frames will look great in combination with bright natural colors. Even if you don’t consider yourself to be a professional photographer try to use ultra-close-up photography. The drops of dew, a ladybird or thin blade of grass are good ideas for photos. Actually the ideas for an expressive photo can be found everywhere. A birch leaf, a dandelion, coffee beans with mint leaf or a pile of oranges from the local store will look great on the walls of your kitchen.

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How to tell your kid you are going to divorce

When you are going to divorce it’s sad. First of all, because you need to end one part of your life for sake of the new one. On the other hand when you need to tell your kid his mom and dad are going to leave each other it’s a double torture. The atmosphere and the state of your child in such a situation are the most important issues to observe.

So, first of all, both parents should stay calm themselves, because children actually feel everything-. Any change in the standard pattern of your behavior.

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